If you spend your entire life waiting patiently for people to give you what you want, you'll be pretty unsatisfied. So, if all else fails, let this whole experience teach you a lesson in going for it. Before you get too attached, Steve Harvey, comedian and author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man , says there are five questions every woman should ask.Plus, if you ask him out, it'll stroke his ego in a way that'll be flattering for him, which will probably lead to a "yes" for you.Guys need a little confidence, too – and if he's a shy dude, he might make a move.
He'll probably feel relieved someone else did the work for him.
If you ask him out, you'll get a yes or a no, and then you'll be freed from driving yourself crazy interpreting the amount of question marks he put in his "What's up?? You'll be able to get things started in a productive way put your fantasies of your life with this guy to rest and move on to the next one. When a guy asks you out, he makes a decision to size you up, to see if you're a good fit for him.
But wouldn't it be awesome if Of course, that kind of mutual sizing-up would happen once you go on the date, but this would be a nice dynamic change that would make you feel powerful right from the start.
It wasn't "the norm" for a woman to be able to sleep with whomever she wanted and not feel shame for still wearing a white dress on her wedding day.
However, slowly but surely, women before us started doing all of these things with increasing frequency, and they became more normal.
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