And even if you want to meet a good friend, you’d wonder if your boyfriend or husband would be okay with you meeting a friend. Chances are, you’re being tricked into submission by an insecure man.
And you’ll never even realize you’re being manipulated and arm twisted till you lose your old happy life and become a woman whose only ambition in life is to keep her man happy and make him feel proud of her.
And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.
I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.