My case isn't entirely hopeless, but I haven't been having very much success with this site. I understand the basics, such as the fact that women are constantly flooded with messages from every which way (which gives them the power to choose the best from what they receive rather than having to only taking what they can get), but despite avoiding all of the common pitfalls like just saying "hi", asking for sex/nudity, using pet names, making ignorant-sounding messages, flooding the inbox with too many messages, etc., every single outgoing message is purely in vain. I would also put a bit more humour into your profile. I enjoyed reading your profile and saw that you also love football. Needless to say, last Superbowl wasn't my favourite. Honestly, the worst thing that can happen from taking the chance of sending the second message is getting blocked. I've never liked getting my photo taken, so it seems like a fine example of karma... If the issue is simply that they have a ton of messages to get through, give them a bit to get through them.For your opening message to the girls, one line to introduce yourself, another line or two to show that you have read her profile, then end it with a question. When I was receiving messages (and I never received a ton of them), sometimes, it would take me a few days to get through them, particularly if I was really busy and didn't have much time to be on there.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Every time I ask those questions in these forums, I get ignored as well. What I would suggest is for you to get more photos. I do not think there is a magic way to send a message. I have already messaged most of the women I was interested in meeting, so if they don't respond, should I try messaging a few of them again?Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. It's incredibly difficult not to sound bitter when there is an overwhelming lack of reasons for why I shouldn't be. You are a nice looking young man and you would probably benefit from having more photos. Some will tell you to send a second, and some will say not to. They could be ignoring me for a reason, but it could just as easily be that my message got buried under a mountain of others. I wouldn't, but to be honest you probably won't have to.Been there done that, results are the same as they've always been...I'm starting to think women don't know what they want, and need direction...On my old dating profile I tried to stress how conservative I was. But still would get messages from men who were passionately atheist trying to talk to me.
Only being in the top segments in terms of looks is likely to get that. I have helped a lot of guys get better at communicating with women and have even indirectly helped get dates you can PM me too if you aren't clear on some things.Unlike most peoples advice mine has actually helped people. Posts15928288.aspx Posts15928288Zebedee, that is interesting.But having views to begin with will still be essential.Op: Imagineour's advise is pretty good, but you can expand on that formula a bit. Use humour and muck about with trying to make comments that make the woman quality something about her profile or herself.Not only does this help you to stand out, but it implies you aren't overly serious about the whole internet dating thing (and therefore can get dates in real life - which is an impression you need to make), and qualifying comments reverse the dynamics of internet dating for younger people, where women expect to call the shots. As you live in a high population area, you can just play around with sending out loads of messages until you find what works best.