In the September issue of Vanity Fair, the pop superstar revealed that she and her girlfriends (whom she famously refers to as her “squad”) sometimes date the same people — and none of them minds.
“It’s almost like the sisterhood has such a higher place on the list of priorities for us,” Swift tells the mag.
For me, the whole ‘follow your heart’ or ‘the heart wants what the heart wants’ cliches should be thrown out the window here.
Consider what it would feel like if the roles were reversed.
Where relationships are concerned, going out with one of your mates’ ex partners is, whichever way you look at it, wrong.Yes, you may (as many people tend to) get completely wrapped up in your own feelings and give the middle finger to anyone who tries to tell you otherwise, but if one of your besties decided to start humping your ex, would you be supportive or forgiving?The sheer concept of seeing one of my mates with an ex is something that’d affect me for a number of reasons.For those emboldened by Swift’s words, here are five ways to date your friend’s ex — without making it totally awkward. 1: If you want to get to know your pal’s ex better, you have to get your bud’s blessing first.It doesn’t have to be an “ask” so much as a heads up to let them know your intentions.
Often it’s hard to tell the two apart, especially if you’ve not been in a relationship or hooked up with anyone in a while.